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Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?

09.06.2025 07:52

Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?

Your clothes, music an temperament isn't exactly what I'm expecting with going out with. Now you're degraded, embarrass because you believe someone wanted you, all of a sudden he doesn't. You spent all this time, effort an then find out it's not going to work out.

Angela

You want someone that's happy with less baggage, doesn't have serious issues in life . It's not fair to you, me an others to be treated poorly because of the ex or some kinda influence that broke it's heart or did stuff that made the guy become a jerk. Some people do end up with someone, been with each other for so long , the romance never developed, was in a abusive relationship. Because of this baggage, issues it's like they've grown onto it, believe that's how it is, how to live by.

I am so tired of ignorant people like you calling us far rights, why democrats is so educated, they take things from their own mouth, you guys are totalitarian party?

But the ones to do love you, are kind and let you in are the ones you should provide, listen and cater and care for.

An really that's hard to do, really you could do it this way if you don't wanna be open seeing others because of being jealous, having trust issues. The best course of action is to stick with one guy, see how you can connect, then break it off if you believe it's not going to work.

This isn't your problem to blame, he made that desiscion dump you, now you're grieving, others are affected an grieving to from it.

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It isn't fair that I, others have to suffer ,which is why be happy that he dumped you. You're not his type, so why would you even want that?! Just think if you did, trying to change yourself to please him Instead of trying to figure yourself out, what I like an really what makes me happy.

Love,

But I'm really sorry he's a jerk for dropping you but really he isn't because he did you a favor. He set you free, helped release you instead of abusing you, treating you badly .

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Your clothes, getting to know your mind, heart triggers him with being turned off, wants someone that's more ideal to what he wants in a partner, which is why I tell myself, other women to stay strong, accept the rejection even when it hurts but to not be weak, be a doormat and try to change or change him. I think you need to look at you, figure out exactly what you want in a partner, be friends with the guy, know him or date around but keep it reserved, friendly but not in a sensual way to where you feel used by having sex.

But anyways, leave him alone. He's immature, couldn't handle you if he did. It would be short lived anyways.

When your morals, your upbringing doesn't exactly match his. Now you're suffering because you don't get this kinda environment of developing, growing into. Youre so use to what you know, how you're raised. Which is why I tell people, even myself to stick to your morals, beliefs, try to make yourself notice, be true to yourself. Even if that means becoming a bitch, having your guard up. It's not fair if you're mushy buying flowers, cooking dinner and treating a guy like a king, then find out he could never be selfless, be considerate, be thoughtful to your heart, listen to your mind, love your body, looks at the same time.

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Which is why family, friends are important, to love others, treat people with respect. Because I'll tell you what, one of these days you're in a rut or stuck, need help and someone might not care, actually help you, show up. You pushed away all the good people, kept the bad, got screwed over bc you chose the bad.

It has happen where a guy says I love your looks but I hate your heart. I don't get the third eye, but I like your sarcastic humor. You see what I'm saying?! Some people are just picky, want a steady, easy compatible relationship, just go with the flow and just be happy together.

Because not everything is clicking, which is why it dissolved for some kinda reason. There's something about you that captures him, then all of a sudden it just stopped. I've had that happen to me many times, boy does it hurt. You fall so hard for someone, the reason is him wanting you, then after a couple of days it's like I lost interest, decided to change my mind.

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Once you learn to accept, love yourself you'll be able to let others in, let them respect, love you as well. It has to be mutual to love each other. Which is why if you're in a one sided selfish relationship, you're better off alone, finding someone else . Instead of making a mockery out of it, until karma hits, wow I just fucked up.

You want someone that's decisive that knows what he wants in love, treats you good. Someone where you get along, enjoy each other's company, love every minute being together. You want someone who's a leader that's not easily influenced by others telling you what to do, pushing you off the cliff. Someone that hits you, bullies you,annoys you who doesn't respect you isn't someone you want.

Anyways, to spiritually heal myself. I bought flowers for Bernadette the saint, gratitude to Jesus ghost, the Virgin Mary's ghost since I'm psychic.

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The hugging, flirting, kissing an telling you I like you so much, then out of no where takes you some place, says I'm sorry, it isn't going to work out .

Be one track minded, Instead of being a mess with seeing more then one person. What happens if if you're open you might miss out on me right, mr. Right already left you bc you're seeing other people. You're label a hoe, that's not what you want , especially if you're trying to find the one .

An..it's not just with females, it's applies to guys too. You believe that I can change, I can fix it. But then you find out it can't be fixed, now you're heart broken.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

Pretty kooky, weird crazy talk but it's legit, genuine talk.

You feel used, lead on an maybe even confused as well as being hurt. Now you're in denial, wondering what did I do?! You find out that latching on could make it worse by trying to fix it, then come to find out a new girl is in the picture, he cheated on you or never wants to see you, probably bash talking you, hurting your confidence by making you believe I'm ugly, really you're not. It's just him wanting you to let go, he already let you go.

Which is why someone thats self destructive who's bringing you down, isn't someone you want. So..anyways, I would let him go. It’s worse if you had kids or had some reason why you have to cling on. Now you have to share the kid, be in each other's life and raise it seperate. An it hurts, especially when it found someone else, you have kids together. There's a sense of insecurity, maybe even jealousy bc of carrying it's kid, wishing the marriage didn't end.

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